Editor's Note: If you have a tween or a teen, you need to know where they are online and what they're saying. Melissa at Confessions of a Dr. Mom explained a recent post why it's so important for you to be involved, checking on accounts, and asking them questions. Most often, your teen won't willingly speak up about any online bullying going on -- until it's too late. You need to be the parent and be involved. Her post is simply a must-read for parents. -Jenna
When Silence Is the Opposite of Golden:
It’s why I tell all parents of tweens/teens how important it is for them to be where their children are online. You just have to. Make it a rule and have an agreement before they join spaces such as Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Make it clear, that your goal is to keep them safe, not violate their privacy.
Counsel them on social media manners. Like not making fun of, saying hurtful things to, or spreading rumors about someone online. Encourage them to speak up when they see or are a target of online cruelty.
Many teens are too embarrassed to tell anyone what’s happening to them. So they stay silent…until they just can’t handle it anymore.
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